I sometimes find it helpful to look at similarities and contrasts between similar stories.

“I want to challenge the mindset that failure is not an option” [ https://wants.blog/2025/12/18/i-want-to-challenge-the-mindset-that-failure-is-not-an-option ]

“Grieving the life you hoped to live doesn’t mean you’ve failed (It means you loved deeply enough to imagine it)” [ https://mortality.news.blog/2025/12/18/grieving-the-life-you-hoped-to-live-doesnt-mean-youve-failed-it-means-you-loved-deeply-enough-to-imagine-it ]

image source: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kintsugi